10 things you can do to INVESTIGATE if you expect he's been cheating on you:

1. Closely monitor his phone activity and take notes. If he answers calls around you, does he act rushed to hang up with the person? Can you tell if its a female? If you have access to his phone and can go through it without him knowing, DO IT. Take note of all of the names and numbers in his phone book. Write down all incoming, outgoing, and missed calls. Make sure you notate the times and length of calls. If you're lucky enough to have the password to his voicemail. Check his messages from your phone often. If he doesn't keep his voicemail password protected, check his messages from his phone. Keep the following in mind: He might...

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12 tell-tale signs that he's cheating on you:

He's broke because all of his cash is going to the other woman. He's been putting you down lately or picking fights with you (this is a tactic they use to ease their guilt). They get defensive if you question where they've been or ask about females that he has been spending time with. The first thing he does when he gets home is take a shower. He has all of a sudden been meticulous with keeping his physical appearance up. He doesn't have a lot of time for you, and he may have told you he's "working late" on many occasions. He goes out at night, a lot. He may use the out with "buddies" excuse. When he's out, his phone is off, and goes straight...

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You think he's cheating on you...and you don't know what to do

This is the ONLY advice you need to follow if you suspect your man is cheating on you. You think your man is cheating on you. The thought has at least crossed your mind. Something he may have said, or done, may have sparked a little doubt in your mind the he is being loyal. It is far too easy in this situation to say " No, he's not like that," or " he wouldn't do that to me." Let me tell you: He could, he can, and he will. When you start suspecting your man is cheating on you, this is your female intuition raising a huge RED FLAG. You need to listen to what you think deep down in your gut, because this is the voice of truth that you NEED...

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Why Do People Say "No Problem" in Response to "Thank You"?

It would be difficult to say precisely when the response "No problem" first entered the public vernacular, but its use (or more precisely, overuse) has been a point of contention among etiquette and grammar experts for decades. Some have no problem with a "no problem" response during an informal exchange, while others believe it is far too casual to be an acceptable response to a gracious "thank you." As far as why many people prefer "no problem" to more formal responses could be a matter of habit and age. Older people tend to respond to an expression of thanks with more traditional phrases such as "you're welcome" or "my pleasure." These responses...

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